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A Sexy May Wedding

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A Sexy May Wedding


Did you know that the Hawthorn tree’s most common folk name is ‘the May tree’. Beltane or Bealtaine (Month of May) is the beginning of Summer and a time of high fertility starts at the first sprouting of the mayblossom. Mayblossom has a heady smell often associated with sexual activity. Hawthorn’s white blossom is associated with the male principle and its red berries of autumn are linked with the female, menstrual principle.


The Pleasures of Love

Going ‘a maying’- a term that referred to collecting hawthorn in the woods for May Day celebrations- became synonymous with the pleasures of love. The young men would cut a tree to erect as a maypole, which was then topped by a garland mayblossom. As the girls danced, the red and white ribbons symbolising the male and female principles, pulled down the mayblossom garland over the phallic maypole.


Wedding Bouquets And Circletsmay day pole

Brides carried mayblossom in their wedding bouquets to encourage fertility- a custom that persists today, even though the original meaning may be forgotten. The white colour, spring petals and red autumn berries of hawthorn are associated, respectively, with the principles of masculinity and femininity. This tradition of entwining flowers and berries in bridal bouquets originates from the custom of using mayblossom to encourage fertility. With all this in mind ladies, it’s probably a good idea to remember the mayblossom on your May wedding day if planning on starting a family!


Sexual Music

From my point of view as a DJ who plays at lots of Summer Weddings,  I want to align the music with the May and Summer energies. Fertility, sexuality and romantic love come to mind.  Musically, In my playlist I have Rihanna, Beyoncé, Adele, Lady Gaga, Shakira, Sia, Jess Glynne, Ella Henderson, Jennifer Hudson,  Ariana Grande, Kylie, Toni Braxton,  Chaka Khan, Whitney Heuston, Madonna, Lionel Richie, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross, Justin Timberlake, Justin Biebier and Bruno Mars. I could go on. I am sure you have your own individual tastes and ideas which we can add to the list. Check out my other music compilations in the categories section of the home page for song ideas and to get to know me better.



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